ANXIETY, GRIEF, AND ADHD THERAPY FOR ADULT WOMEN IN COLORADO + VIRGINIA
Therapy for all the parts you’re quietly carrying.
I’m part of a larger practice, so search “Kate Willecke” in the scheduler to find my calendar. Choose the free 15-minute consult and pick a time that works. Any trouble? Email me at hello@brightconnectionscounseling.com.
I’m so glad you’re here.
Does any of this sound familiar?
You say yes before checking whether you want to, then resent your calendar.
You’ve built a system of alarms and sticky notes so no one sees how hard the basics are. People call you “so put together”, but most of the time you feel the opposite.
Maybe you’ve typed “do I have ADHD?” into a search bar and told no one.
Your inner critic has an opinion about everything, and none of them are kind.
You rewrite a text four times, or lie awake replaying something you said in 2019.
The smallest inconvenience makes you want to run away.
These are patterns that kept you safe once. They’re also exhausting, and they can change.
Start with a free 15-minute consult call. We’ll talk about what’s going on, whether we’re a good fit, and how fees and scheduling would work. No prep and no decisions required. This is therapy that feels like an exhale, not another task. Let’s start here.
Meet Kate
Hi! I’m Kate Willecke, an LCSW licensed in Colorado and Virginia. I am a certified EMDR clinician with advanced IFS training. I also bring attachment-based therapy, mindfulness, and somatic tools into our work.
I’m a recovering anxious people pleaser with ADHD, too. I was diagnosed at 31, after my second child was born, and years of “why is this so hard for me?” finally had an answer. It’s a big part of why I do this work.
Outside the office, I’m off chasing the next adventure or enjoying a movie night and good Indian food. I love bringing humor into my life and into my sessions, because healing can be heavy without being humorless.
I’m also a wife and a mom of two little kids, and I value balance, so I see clients three days a week during the day. That keeps me present at home and fully present with you. It also means I don’t offer evenings or weekends.
If any of this sounds like you, I’d love to meet you and see if we click!
My Mission as A Therapist:
I support deeply feeling women struggling with perfectionism, people pleasing, and ADHD reclaim trust in themselves and a sense of self that isn’t built on keeping everyone else okay.
The Space.
A Few Kind Words.
Frequently Asked Questions
Below you’ll find answers to many of the most frequently asked questions. If your question isn’t answered below, feel free to fill out our contact form or reach out via email.
About the Sessions
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It takes courage and strength to be here, so welcome! You can connect with us through email, call, or text to schedule a complementary phone consultation. In this call, we’ll learn more about each other and your goals for therapy. You will also be able to ask questions about rates, insurance, and any other logistics you’d like clarification on. If we decide that we are a good fit and you would like to proceed with working together, the next steps will be completing intake paperwork sent to you via email through a secure client portal called Simple Practice.
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Sessions can be held virtually or in-person at my office in Arvada, CO. Most therapy sessions are around 50 minutes. I recommend meeting weekly for the first month or two, in order to build a solid foundation for our work together. After this period, we can explore moving sessions to biweekly to accommodate your schedule if needed. One thing to note is that progress is typically seen quicker if we continue to meet weekly, compared to biweekly.
I also offer Therapy Intensives, blending EMDR and IFS-informed tools. I offer 90-minute, 3, 4, or 6-hour Intensives, depending on your goals, preference, and availability.
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Your first session is a chance for us to slow down, get to know each other, and begin exploring what brings you to therapy. We’ll talk through what’s been coming up for you, what you’re hoping to shift or understand, and what you want from our work together. I will reference your intake paperwork to get more context from you. Throughout this first session, you’re always welcome to share what feels most important, and to ask me questions, too.
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We generally refrain from assigning formal diagnoses unless it serves a clear purpose in our work together. Our approach centers on understanding your lived experience and making sense of the symptoms that are showing up for you.
That said, if you choose to use insurance reimbursement through superbills, we are required to assign a mental health diagnosis. This diagnosis will be included on the documentation we provide.
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This is different for everyone. For some individuals, a few sessions is all it takes. For others, deep exploration and healing might occur over the span of several months or longer. We’re an open door practice and see many of our clients over the course of years, as they face the different challenges that come up in adult life.
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If you are unable to attend a therapy appointment, please make sure you cancel at least 24 hours beforehand. In the event of a no-show or late-cancellation within the 24 hour window, you will be charged the full amount of the missed session ($170). I offer one late cancellation or no-show grace per client. After that, any late cancellations, reschedules, or no-shows will be charged the full fee of $170. Special consideration may be given in the case of an emergency or sudden illness, at my discretion.
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The simple answer is yes! Since COVID, virtual meetings have become a norm in our daily lives. And, because of the convenience they afford, it’s likely to stay that way. There are numerous benefits to online therapy, particularly for those who work from home, have children and/or busy schedules, are COVID-conscious, live in a rural area, or value increased privacy (and the list goes on)! Thanks to a variety of new and innovative technologies, EMDR can be just as effective online as well.
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Yes, confidentiality is one of the most essential parts of the therapeutic relationship. What you share in session stays between us, and you’ll receive a written informed consent form that specifies this in the intake paperwork.
That said, there are a few legal and ethical exceptions to confidentiality, which exist to keep you and others safe. As a mandated reporter, I’m required to break confidentiality if:
You disclose suspected abuse or neglect of a child, elder, or vulnerable adult
You’re at serious risk of harming yourself or someone else
If those situations ever come up, we’ll talk through them with care. My priority is to support your safety and wellbeing, while maintaining our relationship even if a report needs to be made.
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I have several years of experience working with children - they will always hold a special place in my heart. Due to this, I reserve a small portion of my caseload for children and teens - please inquire about current play therapy openings when completing the contact form! I am a Certified Synergetic Play Therapist and also utilize child-centered play therapy techniques.
Misc + More Questions
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I don’t provide treatment for primary psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia or schizoaffective disorder. I am also not an expert in substance abuse. If you’re seeking support in these areas, I’m happy to offer referrals to trusted providers who specialize in this type of care.
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I offer a free 15-minute intro call to all potential new clients. It’s very low-pressure and helps us get to know each other a bit to figure out if working together feels like a good fit.
Here’s what you can expect:
I’ll ask what’s bringing you to therapy right now
I’ll share more about me and how I work as a therapist
You can ask any questions you have
We’ll cover logistics like rates, insurance, and availability
Again, this call is just a starting place and a chance to see if it feels like the right next step for you. And if it’s not the right fit, I can share referrals to some really great therapists that I know and trust.
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If we both feel like it’s a good fit after our intro call, we’ll schedule your first therapy session. I’ll send you intake forms to complete ahead of time. If you’ve scheduled a virtual session, you’ll receive a secure video link via SimplePractice, a HIPAA-compliant platform designed specifically for therapy.